Betty Carlow

December 8, 1926 - September 8, 2021

Betty Lou (Neumeyer) Carlow was born December 8, 1926, in Checotah, Oklahoma to William B. and Jessie L. (Sanders) Neumeyer. She passed away on September 8, 2021 in Tulsa, Oklahoma. Betty graduated from Checotah High School and attended Northeastern State University in Tahlequah, Oklahoma where she met the love of her life, Jack Carlow, Jr. Betty and Jack were married in November, 1948 and had been married 65 years at the time of her beloved Jack’s death in 2013. They had two sons, Jack and Steve. Betty was a member of the Arrow Heights Baptist Church for over 35 years. Having learned to love the piano as a young girl taking lessons, Betty became a professional pianist and piano instructor for many years. Her last performance was at the age of 93. Betty was preceded in death by her parents, one brother and three sisters, her husband, Jack and son, Steve. She is survived by her son, Jack and wife, Gail, daughter-in-law, Rose Mary, grandchildren, Brent Carlow (wife Samantha), Brian Carlow (wife Kara), Kristen (Carlow) Holland (husband Brian), Colby Carlow and six great-grandchildren, four nieces and one nephew. Betty was a loving and caring wife, mother, mother-in-law, grandmother, great-grandmother, and friend to many. She will be truly missed by all that knew and loved her. May our loving memories of her last forever. Contributions in Betty’s memory may be made to RiverCross Hospice or to your favorite charity.