Kathleen Lavern Love

Kathleen Lavern Love was born on November 7, 1934, in Kingsmill, Texas. Surrounded by the love of the many family members who were with her in her final hours, she peacefully entered her heavenly home on July 11, 2026. Lavern was preceded in death by her parents, Loyde and Oleta Cooper; her sister, Leota Crouch; and her nephew, Jerrell Crouch. She is lovingly remembered by her brother, Ron Cooper and his wife, Nancy, of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma; her brother-in-law, Newel Crouch of Carlsbad, New Mexico; and many cherished nieces, nephews, cousins, and friends. Around 1943, Lavern's family moved to Carlsbad, New Mexico, where she spent her formative years. She graduated with honors from Carlsbad High School in 1953 and was a founding member of the school's renowned Troubadours Choir, a reflection of her lifelong love of music. In November 1957, Lavern married the love of her life, Don Love. Together they shared 68 wonderful years of faith, devotion, and partnership. Their marriage was blessed with three daughters: Kathy Key and husband Ron of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma; Linda Jones of Broken Arrow, Oklahoma; and Donna Wilburn and husband Mickey of Glenpool, Oklahoma. Lavern's greatest joy was her family. She was a devoted grandmother to Kendall Key and wife Angel, Evan Key and wife Laura, Courtney Foster and husband James, Stephanie Wilburn-Hendrix and husband David, Dylan Jones, and Mallorie Wilburn-Hill and husband Triston. She was also a proud great-grandmother to Henry Key, William Key, and Clara Foster. A dedicated student and hard worker, Lavern studied accounting at California's Business College in 1955 and later continued her education through studies at the University of Tulsa and Tulsa Community College. She was known for her diligence, attention to detail, and strong work ethic as an accountant and office manager for Love Process Engineering before retiring in 1984. Music was one of God's greatest gifts to Lavern. At just 13 years old, she began playing piano for congregational worship at her church, a talent that would become a lifelong ministry. Through the years, she faithfully served as a pianist, organist, choir accompanist, choir director, and handbell choir director. She even loved to play the accordian. Her love for music touched countless lives and enriched every congregation she served. Lavern's heart for service extended beyond music. She was deeply involved in Women's Ministries and helped coordinate a church cookbook at Woodlake Assembly of God. Throughout her life, she served others and strengthened her church community. Following retirement, Lavern embraced her role as homemaker and grandmother. She delighted in creating special memories for her grandchildren, often planning imaginative family activities. One treasured family memory was her own backyard version of the Olympic Games, complete with each family member carrying an Olympic torch around the yard—a reflection of her fun-loving spirit and desire to bring her family together. Lavern was also a faithful partner in ministry alongside Don. She supported him as he taught the Harbor Lights Bible Class at The Assembly in Broken Arrow, which grew to more than 200 members. Gifted with a remarkable memory, she remembered names, welcomed newcomers, and helped establish a prayer chain that brought comfort, encouragement, and support to many during difficult times. Travel was another joy Lavern and Don shared. Together they explored many parts of the world, including memorable trips to Israel, Greece, and London. Among her most cherished adventures was celebrating their 50th wedding anniversary on an Alaskan cruise with the Bill Gaither Tour, creating memories they treasured for years to come. Lavern's life was marked by unwavering faith, devoted service, and love for her family. Her legacy lives on through the many lives she influenced, the memories she created, and the love she shared.

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Kathleen Lavern Love

November 7, 1934 - July 11, 2026